A SPIT OPINION>>>>ABOUT YOU KNOW..........

Growing up, for some reason I always found myself talking about sex. No I am not a pervert, but for some reason it was just the main topic on the table all the time.
Now every once in a while I would come across the type of person who will relinquish there habits, thoughts, actions, etc towards sex, whether it be because of religious reasons or petty reasons like "I can't find the right man". I would say girls as well too, but for some reason, alot of guys can careless about the extras within a one night stand. A guy comes in the room looking at a eager woman and he is usually guaranteed a nut. Woman, well most woman, thanks to society, will allow their feelings and emotions to become tied in with the physical aspects of sex.

Well I have an opinion for both sides. Coming out of my high school, my city, my hood and going into A&T, the same words are repeated. "She's a slut, smut, ho, whore, jump-off, popper, etc." Personally I can care less about that. When a man sleeps around, gets with this girl one night, that girl the other night, and this girl in the morning, he gets praised. Don't nobody talk shit about him, actually even more girls want him (funny). Now my opinion is that, women who do not tie in emotions with sex, congrats, because you are changing society as many people complain about. If not hiring a women instead of a man is sexist, then calling a shawty a slut and a dude a pimp is sexist too.

Now, for the modest women and their opinions about sex....it's is usually the guys fault. For all of the modest girls who are not virgins...it is definitely the guys fault. I am a man in love, but obviously sex is a huge part in many relationships nowadays. Now I am not saying it is needed, because I know successful relationships that prosper without it. It is said in the bible that sex should not be initiated until marriage. I am a Christian, but I believe the bible over time has been misinterpreted and tampered with. Many people think that the disciples and biblical characters were peaceful and modest, NO, King David was a beast. He didn't sit back and talk to the Philistines nicely, he talked shit and cut dudes heads off! Now the same thing with sex. Marriage used to be a holy ritual that was used to bind a couple. Well back then, you met a person you liked, you admitted it, and you got married. Now marriage can take as long as 20 years. You do not need an expensive wedding, a huge cake, and a marriage license to have sex with someone you love...or even like, or that you just find cute for that matter.

And for the guys that messed up that "first time" for the lady...shame on you. Do your research, find those special spots that will make a girls feet curl. Remember, a guy can feel good with almost anything, girls are complicated. There are things to do and know that will have a girl spreading the word about ya. (Grafenberg spot a.k.a G-Spot, the clit and its thousands of nerve endings, the vulva that inflames after insertion, the labia's minor and major that are sensitive to tongue. The positions that will have a girl cumming with the first few pumps.) And ladies, be open to try new things. If sex was so bad, then I do not believe that our Lord would have created us this way.

Guys and Girls, do not be afraid to ask ya friends for advice, for info. I am not promoting sex, I am just tired of hearing what I hear about it. Get on ya game if you like it and do it and WRAP I UP. And if ya don't do it, stay confident in what you do. Don't take the bullshit.