Cold hearted men VS Hot headed women

I have been having a few conversations about how men are and how women are and how it contributes to our clash of actions and ways of communication. I am going to make a quick comparison on the behalf of men...since I am one. Ladies u have been calling men dogs for years...and in many ways you are right. Dogs have no problem letting everyone know what they want. If a dog is hungry, it'll find any kind of food possible and eat it whether its nasty or not, if it is tired it'll sleep anywhere without worrying about its surroundings, and no dog is too shy to mate in public whenever it wants. Now women...do not be offended but u guys are closer to the cat species. You guys are sensitive, weary, and attentive to everything...sometimes too worried about everything. A cat will want attention and just stay where it is until someone gives it to them instead of searching for it. It will walk around until someone finally gives it to them.
I know you guys are trying to figure out where I'm going, but I am simply requesting...ladies stop beating around the bush if you want something. Guys are sometimes simple minded when it comes to feelings, or guys like me are sensitive to what women want but are tired of them beating around the bush. In this day and age u must either ask for what you want or just work for it....so I make ya ask, if ya want it that bad then work for it. I love working for what I want...it makes it that much better.
No these differences all fall into place when it comes to a women's favorite question...the one question you guys will NOT beat around the bush for. "Why won't you talk to me" or "Do you want to talk about it" and when its serious it is just "Let's Talk". I hate those words because it is like a man is going into battle with a force that cannot lose. Men do not like to argue. If we argue it is about fun and exciting things like football or a new dance move, etc. I over hear women's conversations and everything sounds so negative. "Why do men cheat" "Why don't they notice my hair and nails" "Why men are dogs" lol! Men, Men, Men. I always wondered why women talk so much sh*t about men but when a man leaves them then it is the end of the world. IT IS CONFUSING. I have given advice to alot of women about getting over just one man, when a man is heartbroken, we bottle it up and in about a week to a month we move on. It is life, a grim and unfortunate life, but that is how it is. I have built a 2 year and 7 month relationship off of a rebound girl!
SO when guys and girls talk it is like both sides talking into a sling shot. They just get slung back or goes over the partner's head. I hate talking to a girl about certain things. I can write to a girl for days, but when it comes to talking, it is TOO MUCH WORK trying to get a woman to understand a man's point of view and I know it is the same for Women. The only difference is....men do not care. If someone does not understand us, then we just move on, as long as we understand what we were explaining. Women on the other hand have to get everyone to understand them. Women are more about what other think and want about them. When a guy just naturally cares about how he feels about himself. "Of course there are exceptions"!
I have been having issues with a woman and no matter how many times we argue about the same thing, three or five days later the same argument comes up. Pretty much, nothing is accomplished. I think marriage is the hugest accomplishment in the world. Because if a Man and a Woman can some how get over the thousands of differences between them and stay together in an endless battle of marriage, they are on a King and Queen level. I am not putting down any women. Personally I commemorate you guys for being able to think the way you guys do. Because like my "Make-up to Mask" note. I would not be able to act and make my appearance based on what other people think of me. I like looking good and perception is very important to me, but I will never where heels that kill my feet just to look good. Our wear a tight girdle that impairs my breathing so I can get more attention. Nowadays the gap is closing. Alot of guys are doing their eyebrows and get waxing and manicures, but still women are finding more and more ways to keep that gap. Women are a beautiful species and Men can not touch what ya'll got, but I just wish you guys would just stop and be comfortable for the majority of the time. Ladies go to college, and during finals, I bet ya will dress nice and comfortable; no make up, sweats and a hood, wife-beater if ya'll down south, and I bet you guys will feel comfortable to yourselves, but not in appearance to others.
I want to understand ya, but sometimes i do, but I think it is silly. You guys yell and scream at us that we don't understand; men do understand, we just do not believe that is right or simply do not care. I notice hair changes, style changes, new perfumes, but do we think it is life or death if we compliment it or even comment on it? NO. When we get a fresh hair cut, a new pair of kicks and some pricey jeans we do not look for compliments, we look for pride. Yes we care about appearance. We want others to take a look and some want haters, but do we need to hear it? no, we just need to know. We believe it ourselves.
Now men, I know there are alot of ya'll that don't give a damn what ya woman says. Ya may not understand, but alot of times just trying to understand is enough. I think it is psychologically impossible to understand, but efforts is better than neglect. My favorite topic that all women bring up "Why do men have thoughts about other women even though they are in a relationship?". I think you women should get off this and accept it. It is better for them to think than to act! They are still with ya shouldn't make it that big of an issue because making it an issue can only result into him making it an action. U think guys can control their minds. There is psychological and biological reasons why men think about sex with other women. Because we just think sex, not relationships, not long walks on a beach, and not marriage. Just curiosity! As long as a man does not act on it, there should be no problems. and I know women have those thoughts as well. We are created similar in many ways, and just because women say "I only have eyes for my man" BULL! You have eyes, and eyes see and perceive...period. U say u are only attracted to your man, congrats, but if your man was not there you would see every man wouldn't ya. You guys don't go blind just cuz you have a man, stop living in a dream world. All men know this. Stop lying to us, because we are not that stupid.
Imma wrap this up. I love women....ALOT, but there are differences between men and women that can ultimate separate us if we let it. We are all human and we all have unique qualities, but in general men have their own qualities and so do women and then both of us have qualities that we share. So next time you guys "talk" make sure that ladies, don't bite off ya man's head and throw giant plant vases at them. And men, try caring for a little more than just yourselves and what's in ya pants. Remember, effort is better than nothing. If that don't work...make up sex.